I have enjoyed for several years the TV drama NCIS. Mark Harmon does a wonderful job as hard-boiled ex-marine Special Agent Jethro Gibbs. As anyone who follows the show knows, all of his charges (though primarily Tony) have experienced the infamous "Gibbs slap". When someone needs correction, Gibbs administers a sharp cuff to the back of the head.
Its generally a moment of humor on the show for us the viewer, but for the recipient it is correction delivered in a memorable, stinging and slightly embarrassing package.
The irony of the gesture, of course, is that it is also a sign of endearment. While Gibbs often administers his corrective measure to his team, he does not use it on just anyone. Only those closest to him feel the sting of the slap, and only those he truly cares about.
Which brings me to my point. Gibbs is not God, obviously. But in this he shares an important characteristic: he corrects those he loves. God often administers a "Gibbs slap" to his children, sometimes simply to get their attention, other times to drive home a point. It is always, however, administered in love and with a view to correct our behavior and help us to be more like Christ.
We as Christians need to learn to pay attention to these slaps. They are important. Heed their lessons, and not only will we feel them far less often, we will be far better sons to our Heavenly Father. Ignore them, and larger and more unpleasant corrective measures will follow.
Like always, its about the listening. I easily fall into the trap of firing off a prayer to God, usually in the form a of a quick 'thank-you for the day' followed by a laundry list of wants and needs and gripes. Instead, I need to sit, quiet my heart, and dialogue with God. Speak, yes. God wants us to poor out our hearts to Him. He also wants us to listen to his Word and learn to follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit within us.
God also desires and requires my attitude be in adjustment. He told Jeremiah "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear..." We often hear this verse in the context of repentance, but I think it applies to every day. The key is humbling ourselves. I need to daily recognize that God is sovereign, I am not, and put my priorities into the proper order.
That's my goal. I have a lot of things that need to be fixed, but it all starts with that first step. Man, is it a doozy...
*SLAP*
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Monday, March 29, 2010
Time to ride...
Sometimes life comes at you sideways. I don't know how else to describe it. Nothing follows a logical, linear path. It all seems to be zig-zag, and simultaneous.
This is very hard on someone who craves and cherishes the ordered regularity of taking things one step at a time. One decision to make, see the outcome, make the next...
That's not how things are in reality, though. Instead its more like Han Solo navigating the asteroid field in Star Wars. They're everywhere, they're random, and while they are NOT in fact out to get you they will pulverize you all the same. Nothing personal.
Yeah. Right. Nothing personal.
I'm actually kind of sick of that phrase today. Its business, not personal. Its just the way we do things, nothing personal. This is just a job, not your personal life.
Bovine Scat.
Like most people, I put a lot of effort into my job. I spend a lot of time at my job. I take pride in my work and my accomplishments. They are personal. It is personal. Professional relationships, like any other relationship, are personal.
Which is just to say that it is an imperfect world filled with imperfect people. *sigh* So we move along and do our best.
What's my point? Well, its just this: life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we respond to it. That's wisdom from my wife, something she's been trying to make me see for a long time. :-) It is also remembering that God is sovereign, and that I am called to honor him in my circumstances. That pretty much dictates how I should handle the 90%, as well as where (ultimately) the 10% comes from. All I have to do is Praise Him, Thank Him, and carry that attitude of praise and thanksgiving with me into every day, trusting in my Father to carry me through. Fortunately, he has big shoulders for me to ride on.
So today, I ride, snuggled into my Father's arms. Tomorrow he'll put me back down and we'll walk together a ways. And if it gets to hard, his arms are still there.
Thank you , Lord. Thank you, Father.
I needed that.
This is very hard on someone who craves and cherishes the ordered regularity of taking things one step at a time. One decision to make, see the outcome, make the next...
That's not how things are in reality, though. Instead its more like Han Solo navigating the asteroid field in Star Wars. They're everywhere, they're random, and while they are NOT in fact out to get you they will pulverize you all the same. Nothing personal.
Yeah. Right. Nothing personal.
I'm actually kind of sick of that phrase today. Its business, not personal. Its just the way we do things, nothing personal. This is just a job, not your personal life.
Bovine Scat.
Like most people, I put a lot of effort into my job. I spend a lot of time at my job. I take pride in my work and my accomplishments. They are personal. It is personal. Professional relationships, like any other relationship, are personal.
Which is just to say that it is an imperfect world filled with imperfect people. *sigh* So we move along and do our best.
What's my point? Well, its just this: life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we respond to it. That's wisdom from my wife, something she's been trying to make me see for a long time. :-) It is also remembering that God is sovereign, and that I am called to honor him in my circumstances. That pretty much dictates how I should handle the 90%, as well as where (ultimately) the 10% comes from. All I have to do is Praise Him, Thank Him, and carry that attitude of praise and thanksgiving with me into every day, trusting in my Father to carry me through. Fortunately, he has big shoulders for me to ride on.
So today, I ride, snuggled into my Father's arms. Tomorrow he'll put me back down and we'll walk together a ways. And if it gets to hard, his arms are still there.
Thank you , Lord. Thank you, Father.
I needed that.
Friday, February 19, 2010
Media woes...
This is going to be a recurring theme, I think. The media is just killing me.
I was stuck in a car today driving, so I listened to talk and news radio. It keeps me awake. I was amazed at some of the things I heard.
As you may know, a very disturbed man named Mr. Stack dove his small airplane into the public building which housed the IRS in Austin, TX on Thursday Feb. 18th. He burned his house and car first to prevent anyone in the government from seizing it, and left a 38 paragraph 'suicide note' or manifesto, or rant, or whatever, behind.
The guy was obviously a nut and a terrorist. I heard some of what he wrote on talk radio, but as happens on the road I lost the signal. While searching for a replacement I stumbled into a talk radio show from the opposite political viewpoint. I decided to listen for a bit, to see if some of the claims from the previous host were valid.
Wow. According to this host, the pilot was a "radical right-wing tea-bagger." This was obvious from what he wrote, apparently. Except that the exerpts I heard from his post were far shorter and more incomplete than what I had heard already that morning.
More offensive to me, however, was the host's persistent statements that the man was affiliated with the Tea Party Movement. I was also offended (as I am always offended) by the use of the derogatory term "tea-bagger", a usage that is designed to belittle and insult. I find the Left so fast to use such labels.... But I digress.
The worst, though, was the continued linkage to anyone who takes a Conservative view. According to this man, anyone who is Conservative is already nearly at a point of doing the same thing. We're all crazy people, on the edge of violent outburst. Conservatives are dangerous, and when we go over the edge we crash planes into buildings or other such things.
And yet...
And yet, examine Mr. Stack's rant. He is far more Liberal than Conservative. He embraces Communist ideals. He rants against the IRS, but mainly for Leftist reasons. He rants against corporations and President Bush and tax cuts. He was, if anything, a Liberal Progressive with serious Communist leanings.
But he's portrayed by a mainstream media host (CNN radio) as 'radical right wing'.
Meanwhile, the woman who shot her peers at UAH, a woman who is an avowed and open Liberal Obama supporter is never once examined in light of her political views. A woman who pulled a gun and shot six others for no good reason who happens to be a rabid liberal is just "crazy" and is not linked to anything.
Unless, of course, they manage to find a way to link HER to the Tea Party Movement as well. Or Conservatives in general. Then, of course, they'll make the linkage...
And finally my favorite. Bill Mahar (sp?) on Larry King, complaining about the Democrats. He complained that the Dems were backing down on the KSM trial. And he revealed far more of his view than I think he intended.
He said, on the record, that people "want strong leadership", that Americans are "to dumb to know the issues" and that we simply want someone who sticks to a position. We don't care what, we just have an "animal instinct" to follow strength.
Yeah. You keep telling yourselves that my Liberal friends. It will make our job easier in November.
I was stuck in a car today driving, so I listened to talk and news radio. It keeps me awake. I was amazed at some of the things I heard.
As you may know, a very disturbed man named Mr. Stack dove his small airplane into the public building which housed the IRS in Austin, TX on Thursday Feb. 18th. He burned his house and car first to prevent anyone in the government from seizing it, and left a 38 paragraph 'suicide note' or manifesto, or rant, or whatever, behind.
The guy was obviously a nut and a terrorist. I heard some of what he wrote on talk radio, but as happens on the road I lost the signal. While searching for a replacement I stumbled into a talk radio show from the opposite political viewpoint. I decided to listen for a bit, to see if some of the claims from the previous host were valid.
Wow. According to this host, the pilot was a "radical right-wing tea-bagger." This was obvious from what he wrote, apparently. Except that the exerpts I heard from his post were far shorter and more incomplete than what I had heard already that morning.
More offensive to me, however, was the host's persistent statements that the man was affiliated with the Tea Party Movement. I was also offended (as I am always offended) by the use of the derogatory term "tea-bagger", a usage that is designed to belittle and insult. I find the Left so fast to use such labels.... But I digress.
The worst, though, was the continued linkage to anyone who takes a Conservative view. According to this man, anyone who is Conservative is already nearly at a point of doing the same thing. We're all crazy people, on the edge of violent outburst. Conservatives are dangerous, and when we go over the edge we crash planes into buildings or other such things.
And yet...
And yet, examine Mr. Stack's rant. He is far more Liberal than Conservative. He embraces Communist ideals. He rants against the IRS, but mainly for Leftist reasons. He rants against corporations and President Bush and tax cuts. He was, if anything, a Liberal Progressive with serious Communist leanings.
But he's portrayed by a mainstream media host (CNN radio) as 'radical right wing'.
Meanwhile, the woman who shot her peers at UAH, a woman who is an avowed and open Liberal Obama supporter is never once examined in light of her political views. A woman who pulled a gun and shot six others for no good reason who happens to be a rabid liberal is just "crazy" and is not linked to anything.
Unless, of course, they manage to find a way to link HER to the Tea Party Movement as well. Or Conservatives in general. Then, of course, they'll make the linkage...
And finally my favorite. Bill Mahar (sp?) on Larry King, complaining about the Democrats. He complained that the Dems were backing down on the KSM trial. And he revealed far more of his view than I think he intended.
He said, on the record, that people "want strong leadership", that Americans are "to dumb to know the issues" and that we simply want someone who sticks to a position. We don't care what, we just have an "animal instinct" to follow strength.
Yeah. You keep telling yourselves that my Liberal friends. It will make our job easier in November.
Driving with idiots...
Well, I'm back safe and sound! No thanks to some of the folks I shared the road with.
First, I want to bid a hearty good night to Mr. Avenger. I don't know why you latched onto my tail just outside Paducah, KY or why you felt the need to follow within 5 feet of the back bumper of my rental car for nearly two hours. I do know it was very disconcerting, and I was SO happy when you suddenly peeled off and latched onto that passing semi. So happy, in fact, that I immediately peeled off an exit myself and purchased a McDonalds Diet Coke to toast your safe journey!
Second, the bobbing twins. Two white cars. One, a 2009 Impala. The other, a late model Acura. The Impala was going exactly 70mph (cruise control is awesome, eh?) while the Acura was moving at a whopping 71mph.
The pass started just south of Nashville, TN. If it hadn't been for the State Trooper that slowed everyone down to 60mph about 20 miles later they would have completed the pass before the State Line, I'm sure. AS it was, they actually completed the pass 2 miles into Alabama.
Other than that, it was just your normal collection of people driving with distractions or to much fatigue, doing some very stupid and dangerous things.
Thankfully, God protected me as he has done so many times and the trip ended successfully with my rented 2010 Dodge Charger safely in the Enterprise lot and me safely home.
Business travel is SO much fun! Next time, I think I'll fly....
First, I want to bid a hearty good night to Mr. Avenger. I don't know why you latched onto my tail just outside Paducah, KY or why you felt the need to follow within 5 feet of the back bumper of my rental car for nearly two hours. I do know it was very disconcerting, and I was SO happy when you suddenly peeled off and latched onto that passing semi. So happy, in fact, that I immediately peeled off an exit myself and purchased a McDonalds Diet Coke to toast your safe journey!
Second, the bobbing twins. Two white cars. One, a 2009 Impala. The other, a late model Acura. The Impala was going exactly 70mph (cruise control is awesome, eh?) while the Acura was moving at a whopping 71mph.
The pass started just south of Nashville, TN. If it hadn't been for the State Trooper that slowed everyone down to 60mph about 20 miles later they would have completed the pass before the State Line, I'm sure. AS it was, they actually completed the pass 2 miles into Alabama.
Other than that, it was just your normal collection of people driving with distractions or to much fatigue, doing some very stupid and dangerous things.
Thankfully, God protected me as he has done so many times and the trip ended successfully with my rented 2010 Dodge Charger safely in the Enterprise lot and me safely home.
Business travel is SO much fun! Next time, I think I'll fly....
Monday, February 8, 2010
Attention to Detail
Well, its been a while. This thing has a way of creeping away from me...
It seems that for the last few days, maybe weeks, God has been beating me over the head with this idea of "Attention to Detail." In my job, I have been reminding my team that its the small stuff that makes-or-breaks our efficiency. Most people get the 'big' things right most or all of the time. Its when you drill down to the little things, the nit-picky things, the small items and not-so-important details, that we often pass or fail the test.
Ironically, those little details reveal far more about our attitudes and character than we wish to let on. People skip details for many reasons. They're apathetic and don't care. They're to busy with something else and their priorities are not in proper alignment. They don't have the right knowledge base to correctly do the little things. They're lazy or tired or bored and just want to be done with it.
In my line of work, those attitudes shine through. You come to value that employee that consistently takes the time and exerts the effort to get most (no one gets them all) of those details right. On the flip-side, it can be extremely frustrating when someone consistently does not do so, and again this usually stems from a character flaw or attitude problem.
I was recently reminded of the example of New York City. The new Mayor was the Honorable Rudy Juliani, who is now known to virtually everyone but at that time was not well known outside of New York. The City itself was a real mess, with a very serious crime issue - and a serious attitude problem. New Yorkers looked to their new mayor for his promised solution to clean up the mess. Would he double the homicide cops? Focus on Vice? Put more patrolmen on the beat?
Mayor Juliani surprised them. He did indeed send more cops into the streets with a directive: bust the petty crimes. Specifically, he went after jay-walkers. Liter bugs. People who urinated in public.
There was an outcry! He was wasting time on little things when there were big things to fix! How dare he?!?! But then, people began to notice something. The attitude started to shift. As the people in authority began to show that the little things meant something and started enforcing the small things, the common people's attitudes changed. It was suddenly important. It meant something. And things changed. People stayed inside the cross-walks. They began to obey traffic directions and crossling lights. They started using trash bins and public rest-rooms. The traffic snarls became less hectic. Cops found people had better attitudes in general.
And then, people started really resenting criminals. They started getting angry and outraged when crimes happened. And just as they had become willing to be involved in cleaning up the trash, they became willing to be involved in cleaning up the crime.
People started talking to cops, they started intervening on occasion to stop crimes by simply being there and witnessing, and they actively helped police find and put away real criminals with big crimes.
The big problems started to be solved, but only after the little things were put aright.
This rumination led me back to the words of Jesus: "He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much." and the correllary, "He who is unfaithful in little will be unfaithful in much."
Attention to detail. I'll bet you never really thought about it as a Teaching of Christ before, eh?
But there it is. And it strikes me that our lives are no different. Its the little things. So many times we get the big things right, and don't even try with the little things. But the little things are the things that reveal our attitude. Our heart is in the details.
And God, more than anything, desires our hearts.
So, pay attention to the details. Give God your heart. I fail miserably, but my prayer today and going forward is that, in the end, my attention - and heart - will be in the details as well.
It seems that for the last few days, maybe weeks, God has been beating me over the head with this idea of "Attention to Detail." In my job, I have been reminding my team that its the small stuff that makes-or-breaks our efficiency. Most people get the 'big' things right most or all of the time. Its when you drill down to the little things, the nit-picky things, the small items and not-so-important details, that we often pass or fail the test.
Ironically, those little details reveal far more about our attitudes and character than we wish to let on. People skip details for many reasons. They're apathetic and don't care. They're to busy with something else and their priorities are not in proper alignment. They don't have the right knowledge base to correctly do the little things. They're lazy or tired or bored and just want to be done with it.
In my line of work, those attitudes shine through. You come to value that employee that consistently takes the time and exerts the effort to get most (no one gets them all) of those details right. On the flip-side, it can be extremely frustrating when someone consistently does not do so, and again this usually stems from a character flaw or attitude problem.
I was recently reminded of the example of New York City. The new Mayor was the Honorable Rudy Juliani, who is now known to virtually everyone but at that time was not well known outside of New York. The City itself was a real mess, with a very serious crime issue - and a serious attitude problem. New Yorkers looked to their new mayor for his promised solution to clean up the mess. Would he double the homicide cops? Focus on Vice? Put more patrolmen on the beat?
Mayor Juliani surprised them. He did indeed send more cops into the streets with a directive: bust the petty crimes. Specifically, he went after jay-walkers. Liter bugs. People who urinated in public.
There was an outcry! He was wasting time on little things when there were big things to fix! How dare he?!?! But then, people began to notice something. The attitude started to shift. As the people in authority began to show that the little things meant something and started enforcing the small things, the common people's attitudes changed. It was suddenly important. It meant something. And things changed. People stayed inside the cross-walks. They began to obey traffic directions and crossling lights. They started using trash bins and public rest-rooms. The traffic snarls became less hectic. Cops found people had better attitudes in general.
And then, people started really resenting criminals. They started getting angry and outraged when crimes happened. And just as they had become willing to be involved in cleaning up the trash, they became willing to be involved in cleaning up the crime.
People started talking to cops, they started intervening on occasion to stop crimes by simply being there and witnessing, and they actively helped police find and put away real criminals with big crimes.
The big problems started to be solved, but only after the little things were put aright.
This rumination led me back to the words of Jesus: "He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much." and the correllary, "He who is unfaithful in little will be unfaithful in much."
Attention to detail. I'll bet you never really thought about it as a Teaching of Christ before, eh?
But there it is. And it strikes me that our lives are no different. Its the little things. So many times we get the big things right, and don't even try with the little things. But the little things are the things that reveal our attitude. Our heart is in the details.
And God, more than anything, desires our hearts.
So, pay attention to the details. Give God your heart. I fail miserably, but my prayer today and going forward is that, in the end, my attention - and heart - will be in the details as well.
Friday, January 15, 2010
Theory vs Fact
Does anyone else feel like you're caught in a giant social experiment gone horribly wrong?
I'm not going to rant and rave or be to long-winded, but I wanted to make this observation: Socialism is a great theory. Unfortunately, it doesn't work.
Facts are pesky things. Do some research. The Plymouth colony experimented with Communism. Bradford, dismayed by the lack of progress and the looming starvation from a very poor harvest, noted that no one wanted to work to take care of his neighbors. So, they scrapped the plan and gave everyone a plot and made them responsible for their own welfare.
The next harvest they had this little thing we like to call Thanksgiving, because their farming paid off.
They learned a lesson: People don't work for others. Humans do not operate under the 'enlightened self-interest' that the Socialist / Marxist model requires. The only self-interest that motivates us is to work hard for ourselves, in a system that lets us keep the fruits of our labors.
Obama was asked point-blank during the campaign whether he was going to let people keep those fruits or take them away, and his response was that he felt it was "better for everyone if we spread the wealth around."
The problem with that is simple. If I can't keep what I work for, why work?
There is a Russian saying, from the days of Communism: "As long as they pretend to pay us, we will pretend to work." How far are we from that here?
And what are you and I going to do about it?
I'm not going to rant and rave or be to long-winded, but I wanted to make this observation: Socialism is a great theory. Unfortunately, it doesn't work.
Facts are pesky things. Do some research. The Plymouth colony experimented with Communism. Bradford, dismayed by the lack of progress and the looming starvation from a very poor harvest, noted that no one wanted to work to take care of his neighbors. So, they scrapped the plan and gave everyone a plot and made them responsible for their own welfare.
The next harvest they had this little thing we like to call Thanksgiving, because their farming paid off.
They learned a lesson: People don't work for others. Humans do not operate under the 'enlightened self-interest' that the Socialist / Marxist model requires. The only self-interest that motivates us is to work hard for ourselves, in a system that lets us keep the fruits of our labors.
Obama was asked point-blank during the campaign whether he was going to let people keep those fruits or take them away, and his response was that he felt it was "better for everyone if we spread the wealth around."
The problem with that is simple. If I can't keep what I work for, why work?
There is a Russian saying, from the days of Communism: "As long as they pretend to pay us, we will pretend to work." How far are we from that here?
And what are you and I going to do about it?
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Dishwashers are evil...
I have come to the conclusion that the dishwasher, while an ingenious and inventive time-saving device, is evil.
Yes, evil.
Why?
I'm so glad you asked! :)
A week or so ago my daughter gave up on ours. You see, it has a bad habit of taking the food and stuff that comes in on the plates and turning it into a fine grit which it deposits on the glasses and cups in the upper rack. Most of these are plastic cups used every day, and it has become common for Mother to go to the cabinet and toss several with grit in them back into the sink to be re-washed before finding a clean cup to use.
This tossing was usually accompanied by a call for the daughter to remove herself from her current work and repair to the kitchen where the task of scrubbing the now dried on and barnacle-like grit off of the offending cups.
Now, my daughter is a great daughter but she does not like scraping barnacles any more than you or I would, so this duty was not relished by any means. It had also led to a general dislike of doing dishes, as the only remedy was to rinse glasses thoroughly and if that didn't work to go ahead and scrub them out completely when the wash cycle was done. Since they generally came out dirtier than when they went in this led to grumbling and then one day to an idea: Why not just wash the things by hand to begin with?
So a wire dish rack was purchased and the hand-washing began. Almost immediately a couple of breakthrough discoveries were made. First, dishes washed immediately after use are far easier to clean. The second was that dishes washed and rinsed with hot water dry very quickly in open air when properly racked.
Suddenly dishes, while still not the favorite thing to do, aren't quite so bad...
Enter Dad. Dad, expecting a counter full of dirty dishes from the day and possibly the day before's culinary enterprise. Dad, who is no more a fan of doing dishes than anyone else, braced for the onslaught of dirty china. Dad...
...seeing clean counters and dishes washed, dried and put away in cabinets.
And so it has remained far more often than before.
Hence my conclusion: Dishwashers (the machines) are evil.
Yes, evil.
Why?
I'm so glad you asked! :)
A week or so ago my daughter gave up on ours. You see, it has a bad habit of taking the food and stuff that comes in on the plates and turning it into a fine grit which it deposits on the glasses and cups in the upper rack. Most of these are plastic cups used every day, and it has become common for Mother to go to the cabinet and toss several with grit in them back into the sink to be re-washed before finding a clean cup to use.
This tossing was usually accompanied by a call for the daughter to remove herself from her current work and repair to the kitchen where the task of scrubbing the now dried on and barnacle-like grit off of the offending cups.
Now, my daughter is a great daughter but she does not like scraping barnacles any more than you or I would, so this duty was not relished by any means. It had also led to a general dislike of doing dishes, as the only remedy was to rinse glasses thoroughly and if that didn't work to go ahead and scrub them out completely when the wash cycle was done. Since they generally came out dirtier than when they went in this led to grumbling and then one day to an idea: Why not just wash the things by hand to begin with?
So a wire dish rack was purchased and the hand-washing began. Almost immediately a couple of breakthrough discoveries were made. First, dishes washed immediately after use are far easier to clean. The second was that dishes washed and rinsed with hot water dry very quickly in open air when properly racked.
Suddenly dishes, while still not the favorite thing to do, aren't quite so bad...
Enter Dad. Dad, expecting a counter full of dirty dishes from the day and possibly the day before's culinary enterprise. Dad, who is no more a fan of doing dishes than anyone else, braced for the onslaught of dirty china. Dad...
...seeing clean counters and dishes washed, dried and put away in cabinets.
And so it has remained far more often than before.
Hence my conclusion: Dishwashers (the machines) are evil.
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